Meeting a blogger: Part 2
June 26, 2007 by London Spengler
(Note: If you found this post browsing the “Love and Sex” category, the first part is stored under “Point of view”).
It always help to have a look at the profile tabs before meeting somebody. For example, Katrina’s interests tab show the following “I want to… Exhibitionalist Nymphomaniac Polyamorus Yuri-Nekomusume”. Ok, I don’t mind about the first, don’t really believe in the second and don’t even know the fourth (I should Google it someday)… but I really, really “hate” polyamorous people, like her or my own partner, Natsumi.
I am open minded, unable to be jealous and have a naughty streak, but that isn’t enough… poliamory is a hard, narrow way (check this link I took from Kat’s profile) and I know I am not good enough to walk it. I truly envy people able to share themselves up to a point impossible to us, the emotionally limited pseudo monogamics.
As I said on my previous post, I sent an IM to Katrina; when inviting yourself to somebody house is typical to have a bit of negotiation, for example “Is this a good moment?” or “I can call again later if it isn’t.” But you know the night is going to be interesting when they ask “Should we put some clothes before you port?”.
I am not saying Katrina’s house is a den of perdition (even if I know you whould like me to say it, Kat :-p), it is only she, like a lot of people and probably all the cats, feels more comfortable nude. Btw, we where taking yesterday an awfull lot of pictures of Natsumi (my partner) for a contest, saw Kat sitting in the water and simply had to take one of her… I was wearing a wetsuit, so consider whose outfit was out of place in a sunny, wet tropical beach.
Going back to the “should we get dressed before you port?”… I think that if your hosts are nudists you should go nude, I even lived for months in a nudist beach (at SL :-p), but I still am a bit shy about being naked in public, much more the first time I meet somebody, so they kindly opted for burdening themselves with clothes.
People talk about “spanish warmth”, but I am spanish and for me is hard to break the ice; I joke a lot and talk a lot until time passes and I feel a bit at home. Both Kat and Willow, (her partner, you should see her to understand how gorgeous this couple is), where very open and welcoming and, of course, playfull as kittens.
Soon I modified the freebie cat basket so it had three poseballs and we where chatting and cuddling… and soon they where playfully “assaulting me”; probably it was my “eau de catnip” fault. The problem is I suffer warmthness of the heart. Not coldness, because that whould mean an inability to feel… but a warmthness that makes me go in hug/kiss/cuddle mode when I should be excited. I am so infatuated with Natsumi that I’ve been unable to react sexually to anybody else (it is funny but it only happens to me in world :-p)…
One thing I loved is there where no akward moments after I explained my inability; we stayed cuddling, chatting and playing for a while, until I noticed it almost was time for Nat to come and I still had to work a bit at home (I’ve been trying to end my advanced poseball for ages), so I said my goodbyes and ported home, thinking the reunion had ended…
… OMG, I was so mistaked.
(read tomorrow the third part where Natsumi arrives late, Katrina shows unexpected resources, and this blog gets musky all over :-p).
… and now you stopped writing!
This is second time today that I come over polyamory in SL. Funny thing, I had my poli periods in RL but not in SL where I find it pretty easy thing to be in. Gotta think about it a bit more.
In the meanwhile, give us the rest of the story!
::Giggles softly.:: She’s going to tease the hell out of us for the story, I feel it. ^^;
And no, we weren’t nakie.. Willow/Maya doesn’t like being naked, and generally wants me clothed. I was just warning you that I am more then 80-90% of the time naked, in some way. Like that sheer black silk number I had on last night. ::Giggles with shifty eyes.::
Exhibitionalist Nymphomaniac Polyamorous Yuri Neko-musume.. Okay, let’s break it down.
Exhibitionalist - Love showing myself off in public, even if it embarasses me.. Makes me very very excited. Love playing in public too. ::Grins with more shifting of the eyes.::
Nymphomaniac - What do you mean, don’t believe in it? O.o It basically means I’m very sexual..
Polyamorous - Well.. I think yah know that one.. but I love many people with all my heart. I’ll just leave it at that.
Yuri Neko-musume - Quite litterally is ‘lesbian cat-girl.’
Hehe.. anyway, I hope this helps. And you better get crackin at the rest of it! People are eating at themselves to hear the rest! Lol.
Dandellion: Of course I stopped :-p. I had heared about multiple sentimental combinations, but never about the specific one called poliamory until I met Natsumi and then I readed about it in deep at Kat’s profile.
It struck me as funny that, even if I’ve had looked once or two at your profile, I never noticed you where a member of a group about it until this morning, and now you mention it :-p. It is a pity you don’t blog about your RL, since I am really curious about that poly periods.
Katrina: Note dutifully taken about Maya and nakedness… and I know you are very, very sexual *winks*. What I meaned when I said you weren’t a nymphomaniac is that, even if you where kidding when you said it, I wanted to let it clear that you are by no means oversexed (probably supersexed, but not oversexed :-p).
What do you mean, oversexed? Random definition of Nymphomania from a prinston dictionary: abnormally intense sexual desire.. I definately have that.. trust me. ^.~ ::Mews, and giggles, winking at her.:: I take every chance I get to be with someone I Love, and that’s alot of licking, usually.
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