My rules for (virtual) poliamory

Before getting started, remember that my RL experience is nearly nonexistent: some months with a boyfriend (we even touched a bit!) and, some years later, the men that now is my husband. So I am not the right one to talk about RL poliamory, but after three years practicing it at SL, I have learned [...]

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Those who I love

I tend to appear alone at the pictures I publish, since I  almost never stop to take them when in company. I also tend to generalize when things go right and rant openly when they go bad. The result is I talk a lot how I enjoy love, but rarely about who I love, except [...]

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Yesterday I French-kissed my husband

Doesn’t sound like a big thing, isn’t it? But why would you think if I said it was the first time?
My first boyfriend was, err, a tad slimy in the kissing department, and I didn’t like at all when he tried to reach my  uvula with his tongue. And so, since then I give short [...]

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Those I love

I tend to appear alone at the pictures I publish, since I  almost never stop to take them when in company. I also tend to generalize when things go right and rant openly when they go bad. The result is I talk a lot how I enjoy love, but rarely about who I love, except [...]

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Dating

Note: I hope you will enjoy this peek into the creative process. Any similitude with any living, neurotic being, is absolutely accidental.
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The never ending fight for a rational use of SL time continues!
Amazing, no, astounding conclusions reached!
Awesome crochet artwork!
(what the…! scratch that one!)
Fight for your sanity in a world that has gone mad!
(yes… definitely better [...]

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RL love, SL love

Note: This is the second post of a series of three. First one was RL friends, SL friends, and the next one will be “RL sex, SL sex”.
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“SL friendships are nice, but not true friendships.” That little phrase coming from one of my SL friends shocked me so much, that I will probably never be [...]

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London’s contact list: rules of engagement

Awesome new logo done by yours truly? Check.
Eight new freebies to be set when the new products are ready? Check.
Old animations fixed? Err, some.
Scripting of the four new products? Yeah!
Tested and bug free? *sobs*
Vendors ready? Promos? Instruction notecards? Multiple languages? AAAAAARGHHHH!

It is time to write a new post but, since I am so deep at [...]

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Self-destructive frustration (part 2)

I have let too much time pass since the first part, and now I am not so sure about what I wanted to say, but here you have it anyway .-).
Do you have days when you want something, without knowing what? Craving, craving and craving, until you end trying to fill the need with something [...]

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Self-destructive frustration (part 1)

I was talking with a friend about a little argument he was having with his partner. While I agreed he had the winning point about it, I suggested him to forget about it and pay his whole attention to her, to give her the care I thought she was looking for.
I should refrain about giving [...]

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Poliamory and BDSM scene epilogue: The Ethical Slut

Well, the idea is to link my posts about poliamory and the BDSM scene, in a last one that define my lifestyle… you know, the one that had been changing continously in the last months :-p
Everything started some days ago, when I discovered the wonderfull book called “The Ethical Slut”, by Dossie Easton and Catherine [...]

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