This is not a blog about sex but, sex sells, and I want a lot of readers and make them come often…*sighs*, I swear there was no pun intended.
So, let’s talk about sex for a while.
I have readed a lot of how silly some people feel with “toon sex”, probably because they approach it with an RL oriented mind. Getting a nice skin, shape, some complements and climbing in a pose ball set with somebody doesn’t assure you an experience except the visual treat; there is no mucous membrane friction here. Yes, the “mucous friction” doesn’t assure anything on RL, but it helps a lot :-p.
The looks help a lot to the first encounter, but by now forget about skins and attachments… talk with somebody until that person, because there is a person behind the avie, until that person matters to you. I don’t mind it is about RL life or SL likings or the weather, there is a moment you see a personality there, not a pretty toon, a person behind the keyboard you start to like (if he/she/it is stupid try with somebody else, you will be surprised about how many people on SL are wonderfull, awesome and pretty horny). Now you can look at the avatar with new eyes: it shows an effort to be, please or annoy; it is a bit of soul exposed, even if it only means the owner is a lazy default avie user :-p.
Do you want to enjoy “toon sex”? climb in a dance ball, or a hug, or an endless kiss in a bridge and talk, talk, talk (tease, tease, tease works even better *smiles*).
Totally uncalled Pandora promotional picture.
Forget about Xcites, undressing, acrobatic pose balls… they can help a lot, and make it funnier or exciting, but forget about it for now. The first time somebody told me… “/me looks you in the eyes” my heart missed a bit. “Kisses you slowly”, “Caress the side of your neck while brushes your lips”… mmmmm. Interested? then I am stopping here. There are much better and experienced teachers than me about cybering (have a look at Raise the Red Lantern: The River of Joy).
As I said, forget about where you are and what are you wearing and keep doing what your heart asks you… kiss, caress, undress in the IM… describe it as you can, no, as you feel it. It is the feeling that can make the so called “sex toon” so deep and maddening; there are no phisical filters between you and that mind that desires you, no akward phisical bodies; RL sex has a minimum of two backs, four elbows and four knees… akward :-p.
Only a final word about relationships, two advices… and I am not telling they are good advices, so don’t be angry at me if you don’t like them:
First- Be carefull and don’t hurry, because you don’t know who is behind the other avie; love at SL is pretty quick and intense and drama lovers can hurt you intently; also, discovering that your fiancee is a hidden gender switcher can be devastating (and I am not telling gender bending is bad, but it can hurt a lot). There can be scammers after your account info or money or, the worst, somebody that manages to charm you and is uncaring or rude in the inside.
Second- Once you start, forget about carefulness; if you don’t give fully the relation is, probably, doomed. Be silly, loving, caring, silly, silly and silly… because it helps you to forget yourself, your carefully constructed RL barriers, and love and enjoy that incredible, hot, wet, silly named toon sex I was talking you about.