When meeting somebody, I behave in different ways: for some I am the nice and sweet friend, for others an impatient and dominant one. For some I love tenderly and timidly, and for others I can do the naughtiest things. I don’t choose to do it, simply happens that way.
The easiest answer would be that my personality is malleable, adapting to the needs and likings of a given person. It is also an annoying one, because nobody likes being compared with putty. Instead, I like to think that different sides of myself emerge when I match the right people.
Lately I have been neglecting my naughty side, and it is strange to see how something that is considered so rash and raw, needs to be cared to keep it from wilting. The friend and the lover come easily, but naughty London needs a lot of effort to show the dirt that is on her knees.
And because I don’t want to lose any side of me I have started exercising, trying to help the naughty London back; nothing too outrageous (by now :-p), only a silly joke and a naughty pic that I sent to some friends through e-mail, and that now I am publishing here after the cut.Hello? Anybody?
This stopped being fun hours ago!
:: Cough.:: Having a hard time with naughty London, huh? I thought the sandwiches we’ve made would help keep the naughty one around. ^.~
I never thought about that as naughtiness, but “simply” making love, wich is funny, since definitly it has a naughty touch *giggles and hugs*.
:: Giggles.:: Hmm.. Different people have different definitions of naughty. I’d say alot would think that particular setup is an especially naughty one. ^.~ :: Giggles, and snugs.:: Most people would think my tail is a VERY naughty tail. >.>
/me winks. Oh, yes, your tail is definitly naughty!
One should think naughtiness in SL comes easy. Everything is possible, nothing, even the most bizarre thing, has physical consequences. Yet naughty can be overwhelming in fact. And depends very much on the mood too. A few weeks ago a “naughty date” got planned but mood and circumstances transformed it into “just” cuddling and taking. Some time later a date become WAY more naughty than I have expected. There is a time for cuddling, and a time for naughtiness. To feel what your partner needs, and what you need, and to find the middle ground is the glue of a relationship.
/me agrees on the tail
Probably naughtyness is easier at first, when you feel somehow annonymous. But after you develop a link with your avatar (and that happens really quick), your actions have consecuences, even if not physical.
Then naughtiness may become something very intimate, because is exposes a part of us that may be judged negatively; I wouldn’t say that the naughtier the acts the closer you have managed to be (because sometimes things can be carried far away very easily), but I believe that being able to share the darker recessess of our souls may be an act of intimacy and confidence.
Hrrmmm.
I can help.
>:)
Mmmmmm….. any interesting idea? ^-^
That depends. Is your blog “Adult Rated” :)
The truth is it isn’t, and it should be, isn’t it?
But only a tiny bit of my content is NSFW, and I hate the idea of putting one of those labels that say: “beware, the content of this place can make you tear your eyes off and cuddle in a corner”.
Anyway, a tad more naughtiness will not hurt anybody’s eyes (can’t promise anything about corner cuddling :-p), but if consider this is a too public venue I am sure you will find a less public way to transmit your ideas *smiles*.
/me just smiles and allows his mind to go wild.